It is becoming clearer to me in my emotional experience, as a Channel of Community being, that anyone feeling pressured to go looking for community, means what is found will undoubtedly be distorted.
Amplified by not-self Community expressions, in distorted Community there is a contrived pressure to:
- Respond or initiate to make Community happen by holding onto a distortion in ones openness, and bypassing a correct invitation to the Community bargain, or
- Not waiting to be invited, and to force Community by pushing a homogenized fixed agenda of Community onto the other.
No matter your aura-type, generator, projector, manifestor, or reflector, people who want true community will wait for it, and those who want their illusion of what community is, will seek their distorted version.
If your feelings of missing-out on community pressures you to seek it out without inviting or being invited, if you go to try to find it, then any action, any response pressure, or initiation pressure on Community, is going to inevitably create a distorted community to have, and to experience.
In correctness in living out their lives, when people want real true communion with their allies, or in their romantic and intimate partnerships, or in the trade exchange (monetary or bargain), if a person wants true communion, then they wait for it.
But what we see happening is in not-self people don’t want the truth, they want the distortion, and they desperately want it now. From far liberal distortion to far conservative distortion, or some distortion in between, people are so distorted in not-self community they don’t wait to enter correctly into communion.
Community is an ego-emotional projector quantum, it must be recognized, invited, and then it has to have the time to accept the invitation bargain to be truly experienced, authentically. This is the foundation of nine centered communion.